Women's Day Is Special

" God Made Men And Women But It's She Who Made Them Equal "

Well ,This day is special in every one's life ,Especially because it is them because of whom we are on this earth ,They are the one who gave birth to us ,Took care when we need them without any talk .I can't even think of world without woman .

People dream to meet celebs of the world ,They always think of having a talk with them or taking picture etc but in reality the celebs of the entire world are woman - Grand maa ,Mum,Sister,girlfriend,Wife and Daughter - that you find in every ones house and every ones life .

I find its tough to be a girl .The mammoth amount of difficulties that

they face are unpredictable and unreasonable .Unreasonable because there is a element of doubt in certain situations that they come across like wise take an example of a proletariat family ,Where the girl is hardworking ,pretty and stands first in all competitive exams ,Gets only appreciation from family ,Where as a boy who is a third class student , with third class behaviour but he ends getting all the benefits like a bike worth more than 50,000 ,good pair of glass ,dress and also loots of care . . . . which is not worth deserving to him .I don't understand why they give more preference to boys than girls irrespective of situations .Is that its the boy who gonna extend the family to generation or its he on whom the entire family is dependent on . . .Do no Why ?

This is the behaviour from family side ,That's not all ,Even the boys have a different view on girls .They think girls get good marks because they are girls .Being a boy i too had same kind of thought ,The reason is that i saw some gals getting marks or doing the stuffs illegally ,For which in reality need a lot of hard work ,Which in case of men is entirely a different scenario. And there is a saying that ,"One bad fish turns the entire pond bad " ,That makes every one think that all girls do things illegally in short all girls are bad .

The count on their character is another worst thing i find in today's world .I find people calling girls a fuss, Any girl whom they come across they name her as fuss without knowing any damn thing about her .I do no how can people comment on someones character only by looking .Not only that on back of her they talk so much rubbish but when these meet they turn into sugar, And she stays under the impression that he is very sweet ,which is not .They don't stop there but change their feeling with time and on meeting with friends they say that,"I am using her" .Which makes my blood boils to 300 degree Centigrade . People attach the term USE in context to girls thinking that all girls run behind money and have plenty of boy friends ,Which is not the case because there are some girls who are decent and for some negative there will be positive in order to balance this world .So, don't put every one in one place .

A boy can have many girl friends but a girl shouldn't have any or more than one boy Friends are some men's thought ,Unfortunately i am surrounded by 95% of men who think like that and If i defend girls they my friends tell that i am having a woman's soul in a man's body, I end up laughing on their silly thoughts .Some of them say that before getting married they will question girl of how many boy friends she had ,Which is disgusting because a girl will never ask a boy about his past affairs before getting married and moreover she leaves her father house ,Where her entire childhood was spent and grew up under their guidance .She leaves that place and goes to a unknown place ,To stay with unknown people with unknown surrounding.She does all this with loots of belief but men don't have any belief on them huh .... man grow up .

Boys do loots of stuffs which people hardly comment on but if a girl does even a pinch of mistake then she finds only angry faces. If a boy walks on the road without combing his hair then no one comments but if they find a girl in same fashion ,You see people commenting,talking and thinking all rubbish stuffs .In this world where women have proved to do things more than her capability ,Why there is still this difference existing . I know that girls are supposed to pretty and shy natured but its not a rule that has to happen .

In public places especially in pubs i find men drinking ,smoking and having drugs ,No one comments on that but if a girl does any short of, then people go gaga about her character,tell parents dint teach her any decency, some take her as a slut...Wow ! people i don't understand you .

Girls can do what ever they want because its their life and no crap person can force them ,They need no assurance from people .This a democratic world ,Every one has right to live,lead,leave the life in their fashion . So , just shut up !

The Key The Sceret

Its a dream come true for me after all , my parents are out of station for a week , Which makes me the king of the house . I can do all the things that restricts me from doing, in presence of my parents . The first thing i did when my mum and dad were out was to pinch myself , To check its a dream or not , the next step was that to put my baby darling I Pod into music system and play the music with volume that could pierce in to my heart and make it to beat in synchronisation to music . . . Wow ! that was ooh la la . Well , that night was awesome . . . my heart went on hm m m m m m . . . . . The entire schedule was changed getting up at morning without that wacky sound of mum shouting at you , taking bath when body ask for , Sometimes it don't .Then having all the . .. . . mouth watering restaurant food , And then my music plays non stop . . . . . and i sleep some where in the morning . . . .Well , i got the key . . . yuppie !

Chalta Hai ! = The Attitude

People in India are much smarter and better than other people in the world ... and that i don't say, Its the international  survey that has proven. Then, why India is not considered as the powerful country in the world. The trade mark of cheap labour

 is still attached to this nation. Why? It is because we Indians are poked brutally with this " Chalta Hai ! "Attitude. The culprit may be a family member but  most of that comes out from within. 

For example - We know that accident is the first impression what you get, while driving yourself on the road, That can be restricted by putting a helmet on your head [For Two Wheeler] or putting a seat belt [For four wheeler] to quite extent but we don't do because Chalta  Hai [Take It Easy]  attitude comes into act. Oh ! my god, What the  hell will you do when you are dying because of your f ' ing attitude man. Men and women don't wear helmet because they want to show their f ' ing face to people, So that they can become talk of the street leading to talk of the state leading to talk of the country and so on . .  . . I wanted to ask, At the speed of train who the hell will see your face and don't the people are having any work other than looking at your face, They can't even recon which gender you belong to because now a days gals say - why can't gals have all the fun - Wow ! this was the last thing i was waiting for. I say this because even now gals are riding bikes and scooters, Yeah  ! you heard right its not scooty  .. . . .Those days are gone now darling. 

Though, The case of two wheeler are worse but four wheeler are not a way behind. There is no excuse for this but in case of helmet the weight is a bit consideration, Which you have to put on your head [ Worth only for it ]  ha ha . . .What reason do four wheelers have ? They need to put seat belts in front of their body. That doesn't add any weight nor its a tiring job. Knowing all this still people don't, Why ? the same old story Chalta hai !  Ah ! Ah ! . . . .  Myself, being a college student, I travel with my friends and some of them have cars. When i ask them to put seat belt or helmet [ In resp. cases ]  they burst out with laugh, added to it some nail biting comments . The most common comment is that, " Be a man  ", they quip.  Common on . .. . .Common on, What the hell is the relationship between them. There is no link even. You judge a person on basis of  a safety gear  ha ha ...... wah !. Moreover, Some people do react to it in a negative way by not putting the safety gear.

• The virus of Chalta Hai ! is reflected even in other parts of life . . . .Like the traffic signal, We know that Red signal ask you to stop but we don't mind in driving ahead, Why Chalta Hai !, like wise there are many more things to talk but its never ending story . 

The reason for writing this is that  Chalta Hai ! attitude may not harm you but it harms others, Especially your nation, Where others question about its strength, Its growth, Its dependence on youth. This " Chalta Hai attitude " may be present lifestyle but it will be the reason for degradation of future growth. So, before you think about Chalta Hai ! think of others, Most important about the nation .